Wendy died peacefully at home, surrounded by her loved ones, at the age of 63 years old, after her battle with Cancer. She was intelligent, caring and a very kind person to everyone.
Wendy Cleary was born in Kingston, Ontario, and she grew up in Toronto, where she met her future husband Dan Delorey when she was just 17 and he was 19 years old. Over the course of 46 years, they built their lives together brick by brick. Their love was extraordinary in their commitment and dedication to supporting each other through every milestone and challenge for over four decades. It was the everyday kind of love, full of comfort and warmth, and with each other they are always at home no matter where life took them.
They lived together for over ten years and then married when Dan joined the RCMP, then moved to Saskatchewan where she became a mother to Amanda and Cameron Delorey. She was a stay-at-home mom and invested all her efforts to be the best mother she could be. The family followed Dan to postings in Saskatchewan, New Brunswick and eventually Ottawa.
Wendy went back to working life after many years at home. She held various administrative positions at the National RCMP Headquarters. It was quite a remarkable achievement considering that Wendy was at home raising her kids when the working environment transitioned from files and paper to a completely electronic computer environment. Wendy adapted to the technology gap to prove herself with every challenge and became the go-to person for many of her colleagues.
Wendy retired from the RCMP in 2019. She spent her summers with Dan sailing to every corner of Lake Ontario. She also traveled to Merida, Mexico for the winter months and considered it her second home, establishing lasting loving friendships.
Wendy was a devoted spouse and mother. She is survived by her husband Dan, her children Amanda, Cameron Delorey and his partner Alison. She is also survived by her brothers Michael, Randy and her sister Rose. She also leaves many loving relatives from Dan’s family, as she has been long accepted as part of his family.
A celebration of life will be held on Friday, May 26th, 2023 from 4pm to 7pm at Beechwood Cemetery with internment on the following day for the immediate family. In lieu of flowers… those who wish to honour her memory can do so by making a donation to the Canadian Cancer Society.
Digital Guestbook
Reetha Parthiban
Kevin & Sally Richardson
It is with great sadness that we have learned about Wendy's passing. Our deepest condolences to Dan and their children Amanda and Cameron. I met Dan many years ago playing hockey at the University of Toronto and quickly became friends with both Dan and Wendy. She had such a lovely smile, a joyous laugh and an aura of such goodness that radiated from her. I remember when she had her babies and how she beamed with love. She was a such a beautiful soul. R.I.P. Wendy, we miss you.
Tammy DeLorey
I was so sorry to hear of Wendy's passing. May she rest in peace. God bless Danny ,Amanda and Cameron. Wendy will be with you all through your memories.
Sherry Searle Mason
Wendy, my dear, dear best friend. I’m so sorry you have passed, but I’m glad the pain of the cancer is away. I’m sure your energy and spirit is still here, though I will truly miss seeing you and our chats. Love you xo. Rest in peace.
Dan, Amanda & Cameron, please accept my sincerest condolences. xo
colleen mcgown
My deepest sympathies. Having a loving family and friends to support you in your time of grief is a blessed thing.
Diane Ste-Marie
Danny and family,
My deepest sympathies. I remember well your visits to my parent's home and seeing how much love there was in your relationship. Sorry to have lost touch. Thanks for keeping us informed through Debbie.
Donna & Michael Josefchuk
Wendy.....You fought the fight with vigour and courage. Rest easy, dear friend.
Luiza & Claude Fontaine
Our sincerest condolences to Dan, Amanda and Cameron. We are grateful we had the chance to meet your family during this past year. From the very first time we met Wendy we admired her warmth, beautiful smile and soft-spoken personality. She emanated kindness and grace. Remember that she will continue to guide you. God bless you.
Ruth Johnston and Byron Boucher
We’re so sad for you and your family, Dan! We had a wonderful time with Wendy at the Tennis Awards Banquet and would have loved to spend more time with her!
Marc Charbonneau
I offer you all my sincere sympathies for your loss. Continue to believe in the liberating hypothesis of a benevolent providence!
Oh, Dan! I am so sorry to hear about this shocking news. U were an ideal couple, and we, your friends, benefited by your hospitality. I remember our last meeting sailing in Toronto.. Wendy was warm and friendly , always welcoming. I wish u all the strength in your journey forward, and the love that you had for Wendy will always be with u forever. Take care , talk to u soon, reetha