With dignity and grace he eased away gently, just one more sunset before his 90th birthday.
Missed now by Joan, wife and true heart of 62 years, sons and daughters, Peter, Tim, Liz, Kevin, Anne and Kate, and those special to them; grandchildren, Jason, Kimmy, Kayla, Ryan, Arpad, Kyra, Marton, Aron, Leila, Grace, Gergely, Adam, Kristof and Oskar and those special to them; great grandson, Cedric; brother, Joe and many nieces, nephews, cousins and friends accumulated in a life of making people smile.
Born and raised in Bancroft, he left to study at Queen's University in Kingston. He began teaching in a one room schoolhouse in 1954 on a rural road in Hastings County. In 1956, imagination and a steamship carried him to France where he taught for 2 years and became fluent in French. Returning to Canada, he found the love of his life in Joan, and a teaching job in Ottawa. Together, they built a family of six children. His teaching took him from Eastview High School to Brookfield High School and finally to Ottawa Technical High School, where he mentored colleagues and inspired generations of students.
He loved "villainous company", generously tipped scores of bartenders, regaled all with entertaining stories and verse, and never missed a Friday night bouquet of roses for his one love Joan. He also found time to put "The Bancroft Prolative" on the map, to co-found and keep vibrant The James Joyce Society, to advocate for the "Re-Masculation of the Lion" on Parliament Hill, and to make an annual pilgrimage to Ireland where he became a beloved fixture at Grogan's Pub in Dublin.
He went at and breathed his last. We'll take at and keep him dear until we breathe our last own.
Paul would love and appreciate any donation to the Shepherds of Good Hope, 256 King Edward Avenue, so his support for them will continue.
Family and Friends are invited to visit at Beechwood National Memorial Centre, 280 Beechwood Ave. Ottawa, ON, on Friday, December 2nd from 2 to 4 p.m. and 7 to 9 p.m. A Funeral Service will take place Saturday, December 3rd at Annunciation Of The Lord, 2414 Ogilvie Rd, Gloucester, ON at 11 a.m.
Digital Guestbook
Bonnie & Chris Hall
Joy (Brown) Ramjitsingh
As a student in Mr. Kavanagh's English class at Brookfield High in 1966-67, I benefitted very much from his love of literature and kindness. He was an encouragement and inspiration!
Gillian Hines and family
Condolences from our family. Such a lovely tribute.
Steve, Gillian and Sam
Giselle Bodkin
So loved my uncle Paul, his amazing command of the English language, his sense of humour and his warmness to everyone he met. I remember surprising him at the Friday mayflower pub in ottawa and he gave me the biggest hug got joan on the phone and bought all the drinks for me and my friends. I remember he and I at the cottage and his mom (my grandma) marie telling him no more beer for you and I would sneak him one from the fridge. He was a real Gem and will be greatly missed.
Stanley Young
Our condolences to the whole Kavanagh family. Stan & Louise Young, Southampton Ont.
Ronan O'Connor, Dublin
Paul was a frequent visitor to Doheny and Nesbitt's pub in Dublin during his annual visits to Ireland, and we usually met him there after his visits to Grogan's. We looked forward to his annual visits, his tales and his wicked sense of humour . He had not visited for a few years due to Covid lockdowns amongst other thing, but we hoped he would return in 2023. We will a few pints in your honour. Rest in Peace, Paul.
Rodger James
My condolences to Joan and the whole family.
Joan Ratty
I am one of Paul’s American cousins. His mother and mine were McMurray sisters. I have fond memories of going to Canada every summer with my family, either staying in Bancroft near his mother, my Aunt Marie, or Madoc, near our Aunt Rita, in a cottage on a lake. Paul actually lived with us in my hometown of Amityville, Long Island, NY for a few summers when he went to college. He worked at my father store, and he and my dad (his ‘Uncle George’) got along great. they shared a love of humor and could banter endlessly. Puns galore! He read vociferously. My brother Jimmy and I adored him when we were kids, and he loved to tease us. My mother, Evelyn, whom he called ‘Neb’ had a very strong bond with him. In adulthood, I loved to see him at the McMurray reunions. I’ve never known a better raconteur! His warmth was always evident. Toward the end of her life, my sister Clare became very interested in writing poetry, and would often send him a limerick challenge! My husband, Richard, and I extend our deepest sympathy to all of you at this time of great loss. Among all of his accomplishments, the hallmark of his legacy is surely his beloved wife and family.
Mario | Dublin
The story of Michael Hartnett’s visit to Ottawa and his stay with Paul and his family for a week in early September 1997, as told by Paul Kavanagh, is probably the best story that you could ever have heard in your entire life. Centred on his friendship with Michael Hartnett and set against the magical double backgrounds of the Dublin and Ottawa international writers festivals (Festival international des escrivains a Ottawa), with its great wealth of mostly unrepeatable details, it's a funny, exhilarating, irresistible crescendo that has all the most delicate subtleties and qualities of Paul Kavanagh's unique craft as a story teller.
MASTERPIECE!
Maura Harpur
My deepest sympathy to Joan and all the family on Paul's passing. I first met Paul around 1980, and most years after that when he visited Dublin, every year. I could write a book on all the stories and escapades he had while visiting Dublin.
May he rest in peace.
Our condolences to Joan and family. Bonnie has never forgotten being welcomed by Paul and Joan for her first Christmas in Ottawa. We will remember.