With heavy hearts, we grieve the passing of John David E. Barclay on April 15, 2025, at the age of 91.
Born June 27, 1933, in St. James, Manitoba, John was the youngest of Sarah (Stovel) and George Barclay’s four children. The family eventually settled in Ottawa, where he attended Lisgar Collegiate and Carleton University.
Commissioned in 1954, John served proudly with the Canadian Guards, 2nd Battalion, from 1955–1964. He remained active in the Guards Association and often said those years were among the best of his life.
An athlete in his youth, John played many sports; later becoming an avid golfer. He also had a rich creative life—cartoonist, writer, and crossword enthusiast. A gifted speaker and singer, John lent his talent to musical theatre in the 60’s and his bass-baritone voice to numerous choirs over his lifetime.
John was warm and generous with both his time and attention. With a ready smile for everyone in his path; he was an egalitarian. From the Victorian Order of Nurses and Perley Veterans Hospital, he believed in giving back and volunteered throughout his long life. John carried himself with a quiet confidence and genuine concern for the well-being of others; he was truly an officer and a gentleman.
He is survived by his wife of 34 years, Barbara Annand; his children John, Kim (Brian), and Mike (Natalie); stepdaughters Deborah and Catherine (Thomas); grandchildren Jennifer, Kendra, Sean, Adrian, Caitlin, Liam, Tristan, and Teo; and great-granddaughters Devyn, Arwen, and Natalie. He loved each one dearly.
John’s final message: “To all my family, friends and comrades, my respect and love to you all—you kept me warm in your hearts through many a cold season.”
Friends are invited to pay respects on Friday May 30th in the Hall of Colours of the Beechwood National Memorial Centre, 280 Beechwood Ave. Ottawa after 12 noon. Interment will be held at 1:00 p.m. at the National Military Cemetery of the Canadian Forces followed by a reception. In lieu of flowers please consider a donation to the Salvation Army, Perley Veterans Hospital, and/or the Shepherds of Good Hope.
Digital Guestbook
Katharine (Nabby) Gray
David DeClerq
John & I both served in the same battalion only my time was several years later than his. I met John after we were both retired from the regiment and were members of The Canadian Guards Association. He indeed fit the description of soldier & Gentleman. God Rest his soul!
Jacqueline Chaine
My deepest condolences. Wishing you many moments of wonderful reflection on all the love you shared with you husband, father, grandfather, great grandfather, friend. Hugs for the rough times. He is always with you for love never ends.
Irv and Sheila Osterer
Kim -So sorry to hear of your father’s passing. This wonderful obituary is so fitting for a man that served his country and all those around him with such dignity, passion and grace. May his memory always be a blessing.
Philip Bury
A gracious and likeable gentleman. My condolences to all who will miss him.
Lori Zuccato
My condolences to you and your family. May the memories you have and the love you shared give you comfort.
Our beloved Uncle John will be missed sorely. Simply a wonderful guy, funny, charming, smart, and always the life of the party. Miss you and love you, Unca John.