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Submitted by amber on Sat, 09/09/2023 - 09:13:AM

On Friday, September 8th, 2023, Viona Yim Lan Yu-Lam, or Viona Lam for her friends, loving wife to Horace Lam, passed away peacefully, with her children, Rica and Eric, by her bedside. She was 73 years old.

Viona was born on February 3rd, 1950 in Toisan, China to So Ha Chan and Wai Yun Yu. She spent her early childhood mainly in Guangzhou until the family moved to Hong Kong in the early 60s. There she pursued middle and high school education. 

She immigrated to Canada in 1971. Not having a strong foundation of English, she often struggled in the language. When she came up short in English fluency, she made it up with her sweet personality. Throughout the years, she made a lot of friends of all ethnic backgrounds.

It was while in Montreal that she met Horace and on June 19th, 1976 she married him. They moved to Ottawa in 1979 where they had their first child, Rica, and two years later, welcomed their second child’s arrival. They successfully raised their two children, Rica and Eric, through university while living in Ottawa.     

Viona had a passion for sewing, cooking, travel and ballroom dancing. One friend said of her, “If someone is wearing an unaltered dress, she is not Viona.” She almost plans her alterations before she purchases a dress. As to her cooking, before she retired, she could cook up a storm. For the Chinese New Year dinner, she would cook up to six dishes of different meats and vegetables.

Her love for her grandchildren was apparent in everything she made, especially her congee (jook).  They just adored Popo-made congee. The one ingredient which was hard to replace was her love.

Viona often attended various classes with her Chinese group at the Yet Keen Seniors Day Center in Chinatown.   When she wasn’t dancing or playing ping pong, she would be arranging the next family gathering or keeping tabs on everyone in WeChat or WhatsApp.  

Viona was predeceased by her father, Wai Yun Yu, and mother, So Ha Chan. She is survived by her husband Horace, her two children, Rica Lam Hopkinson (Michael Hopkinson) and Eric Lam. Grandchildren Cameron and Spencer Hopkinson. Sisters, Ching-Woon, Carmen and Margaret, brothers George and Edward, and many cousins, nephews, nieces, great nephews and great nieces.

A Celebration of Life will be held on Friday September 15th, 2023 at the Beechwood, Funeral, Cemetery and Cremation Services (280 Beechwood Ave, Ottawa) from 1:00 p.m. to 3:30 p.m., with Words of Remembrance to follow at 3:30 p.m.. In lieu of Flowers donations may be sent to: Yet Keen Seniors' Day Centre online via SWCHC's CanadaHelps page (credit card only):  https://www.canadahelps.org/en/dn/12742?v1=true  (Select "6. Yet Keen Seniors Day Centre). You can leave a memo to indicate whom on behalf you are donating.

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Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Tue, 09/12/2023 - 07:20:PM

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Cathy Hu

Rest in peace Viona.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Tue, 09/12/2023 - 07:21:PM

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We first met Viona in a…

We first met Viona in a Danube river cruise in 2016. We were charmed by her friendliness, easy going character, and most of all, her quick-wittedness and good sense of humor. Viona, may you rest in peace🕊️
We will never forget that special egg dish you had made during one of our joyous gatherings. There was never short of laughters when you were around. We miss you❤️

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Tue, 09/12/2023 - 07:32:PM

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Joe Zhang

Viona 一路走好!
老林节哀顺便!

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Tue, 09/12/2023 - 08:54:PM

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Qinying Tang,Jianfu Ding

Rest in peace Viona. Our condolences to Horace
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Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Wed, 09/13/2023 - 09:07:AM

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Tara, Paul & Leah

Very sorry to hear, our condolences to you Rica, Michael, Cameron & Spencer.
I know she was very special to you all and she will be missed by many.

I have a memory of Rica's mom calling her at work and they would chat and giggle away while they spoke in Chinese. Remember these giggly times with your mom Rica, cherish them always.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Wed, 09/13/2023 - 11:17:AM

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Patrick Hui

I am deeply saddened by the news of Viona passing away. She was so kind, caring and cheerful. Please accept my sincere condolence to Horace, Rica, Eric and family.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Wed, 09/13/2023 - 11:48:AM

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JJ Tam

I remember a cheerful lady, Viona … her contagious laughter in our last group dinner, and her remarkable love, joy and pride of her children and grandchildren.

Horace, please accept my sincere condolences, and may the fond memories of Viona keep you and family strong and loving, always!

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Kasey and Paul Fu

Viona impressed us with her kindness, friendliness, and pleasant nature. We have wonderful memories of her. She’ll always live in our hearts. May Viona rest in peace.

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Peter Shum

It is indeed distressing to witness the passing on of a loved one, especially with such a rapid turn of events. The grief you and your family are going through is unfathomable. My heart shares the sadness and pain with you, Horace. May Blessings and Grace be with you always.

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Maria Chan

Viona was a precious friend . We knew each other for over 4 decades . She was bright and outgoing . , smart and knowledgeable on many topics. I would ask her about beauty stuff and Chinese herbs medicine. I will certainly miss her wisdom, her sense of humor , her laughs and our phone chats. But the happy memories together will always be treasured in my heart. Rest In Peace Viona

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